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Have you ever been in the bondage shop? Fetish isn\’t only for freaks anymore; sex toys together with various other kink have gone entirely mainstream. We can see it in the movies, on television and can even get bondage gear not just at the bondage shop but at the local mall, too. Kinky sex has finally become acceptable – here\’s your big opportunity to experience some extra fun in your bedroom. Nervous? Do not be. BDSM (Bondage and discipline, Domination and submission and Sadism and masochism) ranges from light to crazy, and you may set your own personal pace for exploration. And all fetish sex toys can be found at the bondage shop.
So we\’re going to take a look at the lighter side of fetish, the side majority of the women will likely be receptive to due to the frequent exposure in the media. Start your trip here – you may be surprised where it\’ll take you. Here are a few great beginner fetish toys (you can purchase them at the bondage shop):
Many women fantasize about being tied up — or tied down. Would like to know if yours is one of them? Bring a few silk scarves (you can buy them at any bondage shop ) to bed and hide them under a pillow. Tease her body until she is begging you to get your wicked way along with her. When she\’s hit the point of no return, get the scarves and slip it over her body. Lean in carefully and tell her you\’re planning to tie her wrists with each other; if she moans, most likely have a real bondage baby to deal with. If she responds to fear, reduce speed; this might be not her bag. You can repeat doing this sometime soon.
Tip: If it\’s her 1st time, do not tie her to an inanimate thing. Instead, tie her wrists together — this would turn her on while still allowing her to think that she could escape if she planned to. You need her to feel restrained, not cemented.
When used correctly, a blindfold can magnify arousal by leaps and bounds. While they offer proper masks for this specific purpose, they are not terribly sensual. The most effective option is working with one of many silk scarves you delivered to bed before from bondage shop. The good thing about the blindfold is easy enough — the tone of your voice, the sensation of your breath on her skin – their effects are increased while sight is restricted. Watch her quiver with anticipation while you discuss what you\’re thinking of doing to her; you\’ll be surprised by how aroused the two of you become.
Tip: Watch out when securing the blindfold; it\’s a piece of cake to inadvertently pull hair when you\’re performing this. You do not need her associating this type of play with pain.
Perhaps it will sound painful, but it\’s a really erotic sensation. Set a candle on the bedside table and be sure it is really within reach. Drive her wild while using foreplay she loves – kissing, nibbling, etc. As she writhes beneath you, take the candle and allow it hover above her thigh. Gently tilt the candle sideways until only one drop falls; testing this fleshier, less sensitive area allows you to gauge if she is gonna enjoy wax play. If she loves it, continue in a very leisurely pace – this isn\’t something you should rush through. Unless she specifically requests it, avoid placing the wax on highly sensitive areas such as her face, nipples, clitoris, etc.
Tip: Bondage store has specialty candles that burn with a lower level than your garden variety house candle. In case you are both not used to wax play, this is a great place to begin.
Spanking isn\’t exclusively for punishment anymore – it\’s really a very pleasurable experience. The phrase ‘hurt so good’ definitely pops up. Every bondage shop can contain a variety of paddles, but when you\’re in the beginning stages, these could really scare a newbie. Start with something innocuous; we recommend a ping-pong paddle. The next time things are getting hot and heavy. You can test the waters by spanking her lightly with your hand. If she doesn\’t object, keep working. When it becomes clear that she\’s hot for this sort of play, grab the paddle and give her bottom a simple smack — watching the vixen surface.
Tip: Pause between spankings and firmly massage her bottom using your hands. It can add greatly to the mixing of suffering and entertainment.
These have advanced significantly over time and they usually may actually add spice to your sex life. Who doesn\’t desire a bigger manhood along with a never-ending erection? You can pick out from various styles, materials and colors. If traditional steel sounds a bit unpleasant, you can choose something soft and pliable. Cock rings are not only for men, either – get one of those vibrating ring on for size. These will certainly double her pleasure by stimulating the clitoris while having sex.
Tip: Most cock rings are not one size fits all; measure your-self before purchasing. In case you experience pain, tingling or numbness, remove immediately and obtain a larger one from bondage shop.
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